When asked, Most individuals find themselves locked in the ‘mad, sad, glad’ triad and really struggle to identify and feel many other feelings. Take a moment now & think to yourself, What am I feeling? When was the last time you really sat to think about how you were feeling & how those feelings occurred in your body.

See the feelings wheel: The Emotion Wheel: What It Is and How to Use It (positivepsychology.com)

The Tao of Fully Feeling incorporates reclaiming our feelings by focusing on ourselves & what we have control over. It also allows us to center ourselves in the fullness & richness of our feelings without numbing. It can often be a long journey back to our own feelings but the value is tremendous. We can help guide you here at STA. There are many things that block our ability to feel; being too busy, substances, over eating, compulsively worrying about others problems, etc.. Sound familiar?

We often get stuck in ‘fight or flight’ instead of living in a fully mindful place. We get trapped in blame and the hustle & bustle of keeping up with everyone else instead of taking time to fall into mindfulness practices such as yoga, meditation, journaling, recovery meetings, walking in nature. When we are not able to sit fully in our feelings, We are also unable to set boundaries, communicate our truth to others and also to fully live in the vessel of our bodies.

If you’d like to read more, please find the attached article: Pete Walker, M.A. Psychotherapy (pete-walker.com)

If you or someone you know is looking to learn about feeling more fully, please reach out today. We have many individual & group therapists and we look forward to helping you!

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The impact of holiday stress and pandemic stress on your immune system and the role of perception.

We are undoubtedly living through a stressful time in history. The coronavirus has proposed new and unforeseen challenges to each and every one of us as individuals and collectively as a nation. Suddenly, our daily routine built on stability and predictability has taken a deep dive into uncharted turbulent seas and we have been left to tread water. Between staying on top of the rapidly evolving CDC guidelines, managing our newly virtual careers, keeping small businesses afloat, online schooling, and trying to stay socially connected at a physical distance, it is no wonder we are more stressed than ever!

On top of all that, the holiday season is upon us which proposes a whole new set of challenges. Stress levels tend to be higher this time of year due to the demanding nature of the holiday season. This increase in stress comes with an increase in the incidence of cold and flu, especially as we transition into the winter months. This is no coincidence because stress suppresses the immune system which increases our susceptibility to cold and flu⁴.

This year, we must consider the double affliction of holiday stress and pandemic stress on our immune system’s ability to cope with potential invaders like COVID-19. Therefore, in addition to eating healthy, getting enough sleep, and taking immune-boosting supplements like vitamin D, we must make sure we have our stress levels under control this holiday to make sure our immune system is in fighting shape.

To do this, we must first understand how stress suppresses the immune system so we can determine where and how we can intervene to alleviate its effect.

When we perceive emotional or environmental stress, our hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis becomes activated in our brain¹. Once activated, the brain sends a signal to the hypothalamus to release corticotrophin-releasing hormone (CRH) which signals the pituitary gland to secrete an adrenocorticotrophic hormone (ACTH)¹. ACTH signals the adrenal gland to produce and excrete cortisol, the primary stress hormone^1,2. Cortisol is a steroid hormone that normal physiologic levels is anti-inflammatory ². This should be considered a good thing… right? In acute situations, yes! Glucocorticoids are so effective at reducing inflammation that they have been reverse-engineered into pharmaceuticals to be prescribed in conditions caused by inflammation like allergies, asthma, and autoimmunity.

However, in today’s world, we are faced with chronic stress which keeps our cortisol constantly activated, and our immune system chronically suppressed. So, the hormone with the initial intention of protecting us by lowering inflammation is causing more harm than good by chronically suppressing our immune system. The current state of the coronavirus pandemic on top of holiday stress comes at an incredibly high price to our immune system. So, what do we do?

The only way to mitigate activation of the HPA axis is to halt cortisol release is by intervening at the source- taking back control over how we perceive stress and what stressed us out. Of course, this is easier said than done, but research shows that people who are better equipped to handle stress with appropriate coping mechanisms have a heightened ability to fight off viral or bacterial threats to the immune system⁵.

There are thousands of studies that link mindfulness meditation to lowering stress levels and improved immunity. From a functional medicine perspective, this is an imperative intervention to bolster your immune response³. In addition, speaking to a licensed clinical therapist or making time for stress-lowering activities like biking, journaling, or painting are quintessential to prime your immune system’s defense and should become a non-negotiable part of your lifestyle- especially this year, this time of year, and always.

If you would like more guidance on how to beat the stress of the holidays, please contact Specialized Therapy Associates at (201)-488-6678 to make an appointment. You can also visit us online at Specialized Therapy.

By Taylor Groff, MS Functional Nutritionist

References:

1. Katz, D. A., Locke, C., Greco, N., Liu, W., & Tracy, K. A. (2017). Hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis and depression symptom effects of an arginine vasopressin type 1B receptor antagonist in a one-week randomized Phase 1b trial. Brain and Behavior, (3). https://doi-org.uws.idm.oclc.org/10.1002/brb3.628. Retrieved from: https://uws.idm.oclc.org/login?url=http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&db=edsgao&AN=edsgcl.485132319&site=eds-live&scope=site
2. Sapolsky, R. M., Romero, L. M., and Munck, A. U. (2000) How Do Glucocorticoids Influence Stress Responses? Integrating Permissive, Suppressive, Stimulatory, and Preparative Actions. Endocrine Reviews 21(1): 55–89.
3. Black DS, Slavich GM. Mindfulness meditation and the immune system: a systematic review of randomized controlled trials. Ann N Y Acad Sci. 2016;1373(1):13-24. doi:10.1111/nyas.12998
4. National Institutes of Health (US), National Institute of Mental Health. Fact sheet on stress
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5. Abdurachman, Herawati N. THE ROLE OF PSYCHOLOGICAL WELL-BEING IN BOOSTING IMMUNE RESPONSE: AN OPTIMAL EFFORT FOR TACKLING INFECTION. Afr J Infect Dis. 2018;12(1 Suppl):54-61. Published 2018 Mar 7. doi:10.2101/Ajid.12v1S.7

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The holiday season undoubtedly has an impact on the mental health of adolescent and adult populations. There is a U-shaped curve that happens in psychotic episodes and psychiatric emergency room hospitalizations during the Christmas season¹. Cases of psychotic episodes and emergency room hospitalization for self-harm behavior and suicide attempts actually decreases during the weeks leading up to the holidays¹– a testament to the unadulterated joy that humanity shares in the weeks between Thanksgiving and the New Year. However, there is a subsequent rise in patients admitted to the hospital for psychiatric events of similar magnitude directly following the holiday season. This shows that the holidays have a protective effect on psychological well-being. However, this protective effect is merely an outward illusion of cheer and joyousness projected onto our inner selves, a temporary state that disappears once the holiday season is over. After the holidays, there is a well-documented rebound effect that shows increased psychological sequelae and hospitalizations in susceptible people. This raises concern for people already at risk for self-harm and suicidal behavior prior to the weeks leading up to the holiday season.¹ Mental health practitioners should be aware of this spike in cases and intervene with coping mechanisms for patients to bypass the holiday-season-high comedown.

Although psychiatric events and hospitalizations for self-harm and suicide are low during the holidays, cases of depression are still present and sometimes even higher, especially in those that don’t have close relationships with friends or family members¹. These individuals may feel as though they are “missing out” or that everybody around them is having a good time engaging in loving relationships except for them. This is simply not true, but the individual’s perception of the holiday season can send them into spiraling feelings of loneliness and solitude. For this reason, an individual that spends the holiday season by themself should focus on increasing their self-care routine through activities that bring them joy, getting enough sleep, healthy eating, mindful walking, yoga, meditation, exercise, and practicing gratitude^1,2.

With the anxiety and worry that surrounds the holiday season, it is no doubt that alcohol intake increases during this time. Whether it’s to relax or calm the anxiety that comes with being around family, alcohol is often the substance of choice to dim the stressors that accompany the holiday. This is noteworthy because the number of alcohol-related deaths increases during the holiday season.¹ In addition, drinking an excess on a particular occasion, especially for someone that rarely drinks, can trigger cardiac abnormalities. This is so common around the holiday season that it actually coined the term, “holiday heart syndrome”². For this reason, responsible drinking should be advised, and a means of transportation should be pre-determined before the events of the day(s).

Instead of indulging in alcohol, consider having true and authentic conversations with your family members. Catch up with one another, connect, stay present, share a laugh, or shed a tear together. Now more than ever we need to hold space for the ones that we love most, free of judgment especially at the end of such a difficult year.

If you would like more guidance on how to beat the stress of the holidays, please contact Specialized Therapy Associates at (201)-488-6678 to make an appointment. You can also visit us online at Specialized Therapy.

By Taylor Groff, MS Functional Nutritionist

References:

1. Sansone RA, Sansone LA. The Christmas effect on psychopathology. Innov Clin Neurosci. 2011;8(12):10-13.
2. Lushniak BD. Surgeon general’s perspectives. Public Health Rep. 2013;128(6):434-435. doi:10.1177/003335491312800602

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We have all heard of “crimes of passion” but this is confusing love with abuse.  Love and abuse are actually true opposites and have no compatibility together for a psychologically, emotionally and physically healthy relationship.

Here are some questions to ask yourself to see if you’re involved with a love myth:

You don’t feel like equals in your relationship?

Do you feel disrespected in your relationship?

Your partner wears away at your self-esteem and independence?

Love is not given and received in equal ways?

“You hurt the ones you love most”?

Powerful emotions are a wonderful part of beginning a relationship and are there to reinforce the positive aspects of the relationship.  Couples can have passionate and emotionally fulfilling relationships while still being able to handle conflict, disagreement, and independence in a respectful and supportive way.

If you or someone you know is struggling with domestic abuse or possessive desire, or you’d like to learn more about services offered, please contact the Intake Department at Specialized Therapy Associates at 201.488.6678 to hear about our individual and group services.  You can also call the National Abuse Hotline (800) 799-7233.

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