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					<description><![CDATA[<p>We’re entering a new year and with that comes the infamous New Year's resolutions. Every year it seems like “eating healthy”, “losing weight”, and “getting in shape” are at the top of everyone’s list for the most sought-after aspirations, but every year it seems like our resolutions get lost in the shuffle of everyday life.  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’re entering a new year and with that comes the infamous New Year&#8217;s resolutions. Every year it seems like “eating healthy”, “losing weight”, and “getting in shape” are at the top of everyone’s list for the most sought-after aspirations, but every year it seems like our resolutions get lost in the shuffle of everyday life.</p>
<p>When we’re faced with unprecedented challenges, it causes us to lose motivation and retread back to our old ways, making it difficult to follow through on our resolutions year-round. A perfect example is this past year with the coronavirus pandemic, a challenge we’ve never faced before! As a collective, 2020 started off with the best of intentions, but unbeknownst to us- a global catastrophe stripped us from all inspiration and granted some of us permission to slip back into our old habits to find safety and comfortability during such an unprecedented time.</p>
<p>Nevertheless, New Year’s resolutions have the best of intentions, they’re a stimulus for growth, turning over a new leaf, leveling up to become a better version of ourselves. Despite naysayers that proclaim New Year’s resolutions are meant to be broken, there is evidence that shows resolutions have the potential to be a successful tool<sup>1</sup> as a new beginning, a chance to start over, an opportunity to embark on a new journey that supports overall physical and mental health and well-being.</p>
<p>Research has shown that New Year’s resolutions that are restriction and avoidance-oriented are far less successful than those that are approach-oriented<sup>1</sup>. This is probably why dieting, weight loss, and detox programs are unsuccessful and tend to lead to rebound weight gain and a disordered relationship with food, diet, and exercise.</p>
<p>Instead, focus on making SMART goals this year! SMART goals are specific, measurable, action-oriented, realistic, and time-lined. SMART goals are designed for success by making small, approachable short-term goals instead of BIG, overwhelming end-stage goals. Tackling one small goal at a time builds confidence which is foundational for success.</p>
<p>Having trouble knowing where to begin? Here are some SMART goals that benefit everybody!</p>
<p><strong>Lower your sugar intake:</strong></p>
<p>Sugar is a naturally occurring energy source found in carbohydrates derived from fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. However, the sugar in our food supply today is much different than what it was over a hundred years ago. Since the early 20<sup>th</sup> century, sugar consumption has increased dramatically due to the industrialization of food which has allowed sugar to be easily added to processed foods and beverages in its highly caloric, refined form. Now, refined sugar is ubiquitous in our food supply and is found in almost every packaged and processed food (i.e., cookies, cakes, pretzels, pies, pastries, cupcakes, muffins, crackers, chips, white bread) and convenience food (take-out, fast food, convenience store/gas station food). It’s also added to canned foods, bread, cereals, yogurts, and seemingly healthy granola bars and juices.</p>
<p>It is no coincidence that with the increase in sugar consumption from low-quality, nutrient-poor ultra-processed foods has come with an accompanying increase in chronic diseases like type 2 diabetes, obesity, depression, anxiety, IBS, metabolic syndrome, cancer, Alzheimer’s, non-alcoholic fatty liver disease, high blood pressure, heart disease<sup>2</sup>, and the list goes on…</p>
<p>Sugar comes in many forms and goes by many different names. Artificial sweeteners are no better for our long-term metabolic health as an alternative to refined sugars. In fact, these stand-in sugar substitutes have actually proven to cause more harm than good by negatively altering insulin sensitivity and raising the risk for other health conditions like cancer<sup>3</sup>.</p>
<p>Some helpful tips for lowering your sugar intake:</p>
<ol>
<li>Increase consumption of high-quality fats</li>
</ol>
<p><em>Examples- extra virgin olive oil, avocado, avocado oil, grass-fed organic animal products (meat, dairy), ghee, raw nuts, and seeds.</em></p>
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<li>Increase consumption of high-quality protein</li>
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<p><em>Examples- organic, pasture-raised, non-GMO poultry and grass-fed beef; organic, non-GMO plant-based proteins like tofu, tempeh.</em></p>
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<li>Increase consumption of fiber in the form of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, sprouted beans and legumes</li>
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<p><em>Examples- berries, apples, pears, cherries, broccoli, cauliflower, leafy green vegetables, onions, and garlic; oats, quinoa, brown rice, teff; sprouted lentils</em></p>
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<li>Decrease alcohol consumption</li>
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<p><u>Do it the SMART way:</u></p>
<p><u>S</u>mall- Start with one or more of the above interventions and once you feel comfortable and confident doing that, add another.</p>
<p><u>M</u>easurable- Keep a journal and write down how you feel eating less refined sugar and drinking less alcohol. At first, it may be a challenge- and that’s to be expected! Write down everything you’re feeling. Refer back to the journal when experiencing difficulties staying on course, this will remind you of the progress you’ve made, how far you’ve come, and inspire you to keep going.</p>
<p><u>A</u>ttainable- Make a grocery list of whole foods before going shopping and stick to the items on the list! For whole foods recipe inspiration, <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/stadocs/whole-foods-recipe-inspiration/">click here</a> to explore our Specialized Therapy Associates Pinterest board!</p>
<p><u>R</u>ealistic- You don’t have to cut out all sugar at once unless otherwise directed by your doctor. Instead, focus on cutting out one or two major sources of refined sugar in your diet- like soda, sweetened beverages, fast food, or go-to snacks like chips, pretzels, or desserts. Then, after you successfully do so, proceed to cut out more and more sources of refined sugar and carbohydrates in your diet.</p>
<p><u>T</u>ime-line- Give yourself a few days to adjust to cutting out the major culprits of refined sugar in your diet. After you’ve successfully done so, remove more sources of refined sugar. Aim for complete removal of refined sugar in your diet and elimination of highly processed foods in a timeline of 3 to 6 months.</p>
<p><strong>Increase physical activity &amp; movement</strong></p>
<p>There is no question that physical activity plays a major role in the status of our metabolic health. The sedentary lifestyle of Americans in the 21<sup>st</sup> century has come with innumerable health consequences. We know that physical activity helps with weight maintenance and weight loss, increases insulin sensitivity, lowers our risk for heart attack and stroke, cancer, diabetes, cognitive decline, polycystic ovary syndrome, depression, anxiety, osteopenia, sarcopenia, and osteoporosis<sup>4</sup>. To date, we know that physical activity is one of the most critical means of disease prevention, and yet, we still struggle with making time for it in our fast-moving lifestyle.</p>
<p>Exercise, by definition, is planned, structured, and intentional movement with the objective of achieving a fitness-oriented goal or maintaining physical fitness<sup>5</sup>. For some, exercise can be an incredible outlet for stress and boosting mood and energy levels. If that’s you, great! Aim for achieving 30 to 60 minutes of light to moderate-intensity exercise in the form of aerobic exercise (i.e., brisk walking, jogging, cycling, Pilates) or strength training (weightlifting, kettlebell squats, dumbbell training, etc.) every day.</p>
<p>For others, structured exercise can be a daunting, mundane, and dreaded task that we force ourselves into with the hope of gaining some sort of health benefit. If that sounds more like you, you’re not alone! Regimented exercise is not the only kind of movement we benefit from.</p>
<p>We also benefit from physical activity, a different form of exercise because it can be either structured or unstructured and typically consists of activities you enjoy while still reaping the metabolic health benefits. Structured physical activity may look like walking, riding your biking, hiking, swimming, dancing, yoga, or rollerblading. Examples of unstructured physical activity consists of activities that coincide with daily living such as playing with your children, cleaning the house, gardening, folding laundry, grocery shopping, washing dishes, walking your kids to school, taking the stairs<sup>5</sup>, etc. These types of unstructured physical activity and movement add up and result in increased calorie expenditure which may lead to weight loss over time.</p>
<p><em>Note: Please consult your physician or health care practitioner before starting any new exercise regimen to ensure it is appropriate for you.</em></p>
<p>Here are some helpful tips for increasing your physical activity:</p>
<ol>
<li>Take the stairs instead of the elevator.</li>
<li>Go for walks on your lunch break or take time to stretch in between meetings.</li>
<li>Have a dance party in the morning while you’re getting ready for your day.</li>
<li>Stand up while folding laundry or doing desk work.</li>
<li>Clean daily- washing windows, vacuuming, mopping.</li>
<li>Do some form of pushups, squats, jumping jacks, or walking in place while watching TV.</li>
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<p><u>Do it the SMART way:</u></p>
<p><u>S</u>mall- If you’re not an exercise buff, start incorporating small bits of movement a few times a week and work yourself up to incorporating movement into your daily routine.</p>
<p><u>M</u>easurable- Write down the exercise or structured/unstructured physical activity you do and use a tracking app like <a href="https://www.myfitnesspal.com/exercise/lookup">myfitnesspal</a> to look up how many calories you’re burning while doing so and log it in a journal.</p>
<p><u>A</u>ttainable- If engaging in a structured exercise routine, start with light workouts 15-20 minutes a day, and gradually work your way up to longer time and intensity. If you’re trying to increase your daily movement, start with performing one of the abovementioned activities for 5-10 minutes when you have moments of downtime throughout the day.</p>
<p><u>R</u>ealistic- Don’t feel the need to make any drastic changes to your daily routine to incorporate rigorous exercise and physical activity. Start slow and gradually increase duration and intensity once your body adjusts. This will help avoid burnout.</p>
<p><u>T</u>imeline- Aim for goals that are suitable for you and your lifestyle. There’s no rush to meet any fitness deadlines unless otherwise specified by a doctor, or yourself. Instead, focus on enjoying the movement you do incorporate into your routine to make sure its sustainable.</p>
<p><em>Note: Please consult your physician or health care practitioner before starting any new exercise regimen to ensure it is appropriate for you.</em></p>
<p><strong>Be more mindful</strong></p>
<p>Mindfulness is about paying attention in the present moment, on purpose, without judgment. Mindfulness means being able to bring direct, open-hearted awareness to what you are doing while you are doing it. Practicing mindfulness helps you tune into what is going on in your mind by bringing awareness to your thoughts and emotions as well as your body by paying attention to any internal or external physical sensations. Mindfulness can be practiced in a variety of ways- meditation, breathwork, walking in nature, exercise, physical activity and movement, cooking, eating, everyday tasks like laundry, cleaning, or even making your bed. There are countless moments throughout the day where one can practice mindfulness- ironically enough, you just have to pay attention to when those moments present themselves.</p>
<p>Mindfulness encourages curiosity and compassion for individuals and their environment. the evidence is clear that incorporating mindfulness into your lifestyle has a profound impact on our experience as human beings by tapping into a transcendental, restful state that beneficially alters our physiology thus improving quality of life. Practicing mindfulness has been linked to decreased anxiety, stress, depression, mood balance and regulation, emotional reactivity<sup>6</sup> aging, improved immune function<sup>7</sup>, chronic pain management<sup>8,9</sup>, and better sleep<sup>10</sup></p>
<p>Tip for increasing mindfulness:</p>
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<li>Go for a walk outside, pay attention to your surroundings. The way the air smells and feels on your skin, the sounds of the wildlife or cars passing by, the color of the foliage, how your feet make contact with the earth with every step.</li>
<li>Be present while eating by paying attention to the way food tastes, think about where it came from, the journey it took to make its way onto your plate, what senses its satisfying, the texture, smell, and sound it makes while chewing.</li>
<li>Practice mindful breathing. Take deep breaths and pay attention to how your belly rises and falls with each breath. Feel your chest expand with air and release entirely.</li>
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<p>Mindfulness is a personal journey, there’s no right or wrong way of practicing it. Simply, try and pay attention to the routine motions of your life and practice gratitude for being alive rather than simply existing.</p>
<p>You can implement the abovementioned New Year’s resolutions by yourself, but research has shown that working in groups of people with the same or similar goals yields higher success rates and longer-lasting behavior change<sup>11</sup>. Working in a group setting also provides a means of accountability and support when facing challenges to keep you on track with integrating new habits in order to reach your goals. Call 201-488-6678 to take advance of new groups Specialized Therapy Associated is offering this January!</p>
<p>Did you know we have a Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach on staff? If you would like personalized support and guidance on how to implement any of the above suggestions, please call <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/">Specialized Therapy Associates</a> at 201-488-6678 to schedule your complimentary consultation. Our Health Coach, Anna Sandbank, LCSW, INHC, NBC-HWC will speak with you to learn more about your goals, and how she can support you to make them a reality in 2021.</p>
<p><em>By Taylor Groff, MS, Functional Nutritionist</em></p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Taylor Groff is a functional nutritionist that specializes in using evidence-based nutrition and food as medicine to treat the root cause of any illness- physical, emotional, and/or metabolic- that affects our ability to live a happy, healthy, and fulfilled life. Taylor helps move individuals into a state of optimal health by providing the tools and resources necessary to make informed health choices through teaching basic nutrition principles and providing personalized nutrition plans. Taylor focuses on the client as an individual with their own genetic uniqueness, health history, lifestyle, and cultural influences, and designs a food plan that is personal to them based on their health needs to ensure compliance for sustainable success.</p>
<p>Taylor has her M.S. in Human Nutrition and Functional Medicine from the University of Western States and her B.S. in Biological Sciences from Rowan University. She enjoys being outside in nature, going for hikes with her dog, and cooking healthy recipes. Taylor works alongside our Board Certified health coach, Anna Sandbank, designing personalized nutrition plans for clients.</p>
<p>References:</p>
<ol>
<li>Oscarsson M, Carlbring P, Andersson G, Rozental A. A large-scale experiment on New Year&#8217;s resolutions: Approach-oriented goals are more successful than avoidance-oriented goals. <em>PLoS One</em>. 2020;15(12):e0234097. Published 2020 Dec 9. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0234097</li>
<li>Stanhope KL. Sugar consumption, metabolic disease, and obesity: The state of the controversy. <em>Crit Rev Clin Lab Sci</em>. 2016;53(1):52-67. doi:10.3109/10408363.2015.1084990</li>
<li>Purohit V, Mishra S. The truth about artificial sweeteners &#8211; Are they good for diabetics?. <em>Indian Heart J</em>. 2018;70(1):197-199. doi:10.1016/j.ihj.2018.01.020</li>
<li>Booth FW, Roberts CK, Laye MJ. Lack of exercise is a major cause of chronic diseases. <em>Compr Physiol</em>. 2012;2(2):1143-1211. doi:10.1002/cphy.c110025</li>
<li>Ceria-Ulep CD, Tse AM, Serafica RC. Defining exercise in contrast to physical activity. <em>Issues Ment Health Nurs</em>. 2011;32(7):476-478. doi:10.3109/01612840.2010.525692</li>
<li>Keng SL, Smoski MJ, Robins CJ. Effects of mindfulness on psychological health: a review of empirical studies. <em>Clin Psychol Rev</em>. 2011;31(6):1041-1056. doi:10.1016/j.cpr.2011.04.006</li>
<li>Black DS, Slavich GM. Mindfulness meditation and the immune system: a systematic review of randomized controlled trials. <em>Ann N Y Acad Sci</em>. 2016;1373(1):13-24. doi:10.1111/nyas.12998</li>
<li>Hilton L, Hempel S, Ewing BA, et al. Mindfulness Meditation for Chronic Pain: Systematic Review and Meta-analysis. <em>Ann Behav Med</em>. 2017;51(2):199-213. doi:10.1007/s12160-016-9844-2</li>
<li>Banth S, Ardebil MD. Effectiveness of mindfulness meditation on pain and quality of life of patients with chronic low back pain. <em>Int J Yoga</em>. 2015;8(2):128-133. doi:10.4103/0973-6131.158476</li>
<li>Black DS, O&#8217;Reilly GA, Olmstead R, Breen EC, Irwin MR. Mindfulness meditation and improvement in sleep quality and daytime impairment among older adults with sleep disturbances: a randomized clinical trial. <em>JAMA Intern Med</em>. 2015;175(4):494-501. doi:10.1001/jamainternmed.2014.8081</li>
<li>Paul-Ebhohimhen V, Avenell A. A systematic review of the effectiveness of group versus individual treatments for adult obesity. <em>Obes Facts</em>. 2009;2(1):17-24. doi:10.1159/000186144</li>
</ol><p>The post <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/new-years-resolutions-a-step-by-step-guide/">Keeping New Year’s Resolutions</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p><p>The post <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/new-years-resolutions-a-step-by-step-guide/">Keeping New Year’s Resolutions</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Holiday Blues: What you can do to fight them</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Charles Perry]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2020 01:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>With the holidays now in full swing, so is the stress that comes with it! Entertaining guests, financial constraints, social obligations, spending more money than your comfortable with, and feelings of loneliness can make the holiday season more of an anxiety-whirlwind than a jolly and enjoyable affair. The holiday season undoubtedly has an impact on  [...]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/the-holidays-can-bring-on-stress/">The Holiday Blues: What you can do to fight them</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/winter-blues.jpg"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="size-full wp-image-16714 aligncenter" src="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/winter-blues.jpg" alt="The Holidays Bring Bout New Stressors" width="268" height="188" /></a>With the holidays now in full swing, so is the stress that comes with it! Entertaining guests, financial constraints, social obligations, spending more money than your comfortable with, and feelings of loneliness can make the holiday season more of an anxiety-whirlwind than a jolly and enjoyable affair.</p>
<p>The holiday season undoubtedly has an impact on the mental health of adolescent and adult populations. There is a U-shaped curve that happens in psychotic episodes and psychiatric emergency room hospitalizations during the Christmas season<sup>1</sup>. Cases of psychotic episodes and emergency room hospitalization for self-harm behavior and suicide attempts actually decreases during the weeks leading up to the holidays<sup>1</sup>&#8211; a testament to the unadulterated joy that humanity shares in the weeks between Thanksgiving and the New Year. However, there is a subsequent rise in patients admitted to the hospital for psychiatric events of similar magnitude directly following the holiday season. This shows that the holidays have a protective effect on psychological well-being. However, this protective effect is merely an outward illusion of cheer and joyousness projected onto our inner selves, a temporary state that disappears once the holiday season is over. After the holidays, there is a well-documented rebound effect that shows increased psychological sequelae and hospitalizations in susceptible people. This raises concern for people already at risk for self-harm and suicidal behavior prior to the weeks leading up to the holiday season.<sup>1</sup> Mental health practitioners should be aware of this spike in cases and intervene with coping mechanisms for patients to bypass the holiday-season-high comedown.</p>
<p>Although psychiatric events and hospitalizations for self-harm and suicide are low during the holidays, cases of depression are still present and sometimes even higher, especially in those that don’t have close relationships with friends or family members<sup>1</sup>. These individuals may feel as though they are “missing out” or that everybody around them is having a good time engaging in loving relationships except for them. This is simply not true, but the individual’s perception of the holiday season can send them into spiraling feelings of loneliness and solitude. For this reason, an individual that spends the holiday season by themself should focus on increasing their self-care routine through activities that bring them joy, getting enough sleep, healthy eating, mindful walking, yoga, meditation, exercise, and practicing gratitude<sup>1,2</sup>.</p>
<p>With the anxiety and worry that surrounds the holiday season, it is no doubt that alcohol intake increases during this time. Whether it’s to relax or calm the anxiety that comes with being around family, alcohol is often the substance of choice to dim the stressors that accompany the holiday. This is noteworthy because the number of alcohol-related deaths increases during the holiday season.<sup>1</sup> In addition, drinking an excess on a particular occasion, especially for someone that rarely drinks, can trigger cardiac abnormalities. This is so common around the holiday season that it actually coined the term, “holiday heart syndrome”<sup>2</sup>. For this reason, responsible drinking should be advised, and a means of transportation should be pre-determined before the events of the day(s).</p>
<p>Instead of indulging in alcohol, consider having true and authentic conversations with your family members. Catch up with one another, connect, stay present, share a laugh, or shed a tear together. Now more than ever we need to hold space for the ones that we love most, free of judgment especially at the end of such a difficult year.</p>
<p>If you would like more guidance on how to beat the stress of the holidays, please contact Specialized Therapy Associates at (201)-488-6678 to make an appointment. You can also visit us online at <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p>
<p><em>By Taylor Groff, MS Functional Nutritionist</em></p>
<p>References:</p>
<ol>
<li>Sansone RA, Sansone LA. The Christmas effect on psychopathology. <em>Innov Clin Neurosci</em>. 2011;8(12):10-13.</li>
<li>Lushniak BD. Surgeon general&#8217;s perspectives. <em>Public Health Rep</em>. 2013;128(6):434-435. doi:<a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/003335491312800602">10.1177/003335491312800602</a></li>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jul 2017 08:05:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Jealousy is a negative emotion that can interfere with personal relationships and self-esteem. Learning how to constructively cope with feelings of jealousy can help one feel valued and worthwhile, beyond a showdown of a doubt, with or without love from your partner. Twenty-first century culture depicts jealously as an expression of love mixed with paranoia;  [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jealousy is a negative emotion that can interfere with personal relationships and self-esteem. Learning how to constructively cope with feelings of jealousy can help one feel valued and worthwhile, beyond a showdown of a doubt, with or without love from your partner.</p>
<p>Twenty-first century culture depicts jealously as an expression of love mixed with paranoia; that it is true love if you feel jealous. Yet jealously is best defined as fear, hurt and anger; not exactly loving feel good emotions!</p>
<p>In jealousy we <em>fear</em> abandonment, are <em>hurt</em> but the perception that our partner is no longer honoring or valuing the commitment to the relationship and <em>angry</em> at the painful experience of being cast aside. Jealously should not be confused with envy. Envy is longing for something someone else has. Specific to jealousy is the fear, hurt and anger that we will lose the relationship we already have to some rival. Jealousy may be perceived or reactive to a real situation such as infidelity but the tools to cope with jealousy remain the same.</p>
<p>The first step is to understand that jealousy is not a sign of “true love.” It is ego-centric and based off a dependency on the relationship itself.</p>
<p>Secondly, in an effort to reduce dependency, one must detach their own self-worth from the value of the relationship. Finding out that your partner is attracted to someone else is painful but that does not mean that you are a worthless person who doesn’t deserve to feel valued and loved.</p>
<p>Bolstering one’s sense of self-esteem and self-confidence is another tool to reduce jealousy and dependence in a relationship. Practicing efforts to act independently can foster confidence that you can survive adversity and trust your own ability to act no matter how unfair a situation is. Practicing doing something nice for yourself and thinking positively about your own qualities is an important exercise to strengthen self-esteem.</p>
<p>All these qualities can help you, as an individual, improve communication with your partner and increases fairness and satisfaction in your relationship. All helpful tools in reducing the likelihood of jealous misunderstandings.</p>
<p>If you or someone you know is struggling with jealously, or you’d like to learn more about services offered, please contact the Intake Department at Specialized Therapy Associates at 201.488.6678 to hear about our individual and group services.</p><p>The post <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/relationship-warning-label-jealousy/">Relationship Warning Label: Jealousy</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p><p>The post <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com/relationship-warning-label-jealousy/">Relationship Warning Label: Jealousy</a> appeared first on <a href="https://www.specializedtherapy.com">Specialized Therapy</a>.</p>
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