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Seeking Therapy for the First Time

How do you know when it is time to see a therapist? The general rule of thumb is that it is always better to seek therapy at the first signs of a problem or issue. It is clearly documented that people who seek treatment do so at the latter stages of their disorder. They often report that the issue began several years ago. People seek treatment when they have exhausted all avenues and even then about half of people who need or would benefit from treatment don’t seek treatment. People usually come into therapy when they feel hopeless or exasperated.

According to the statistics of the Centers for Disease Control (CDC)approximately 1 in every 2 American has a diagnosible mental health or addiction disorder. These statistics are up from prior years. Of those, a little more than half will seek treatment. Based on the numbers in any given year there are approximately 80 million people who could benefit from psychotherapeutic treatments. The CDC states that while fewer than half of adults get the help they need, less than one-third of children get help. To review the statistics go to www.cdc.gov/omhd/amh/factsheets/mental.htm.

There are mild signs and symptoms of anxiety and depression. Sometimes a mental or emotional disorders presents in the context of a relationship or in the form of ongoing difficulties maintaining positive relationships. Anxiety symtpoms can be as mild as constant worrying or be as severe as having panic attacks on a frequent basis. Mild signs of depression can be experienced as chronic tiredness and lack of motivation or severe signs in the form of refusal to do daily tasks or thinking about ending one’s life. Wherever you are on the spectrum of experiencing some type of emotional or interpersonal or mental distress, you should seek the expertise of someone who is a licensed and experienced professional to provide outpatient psychotherapy.

The best time to see therapy is early on. When treatment begins early, the benefits are that you will stop the progression that could lead to a more serious diagnosis and that you have begun treatment with more emotional and mental resources to make the treatment more efficient and effective.

At Specialized Therapy Associates, we have psychologists and therapists on staff who are specifically trained to assess and diagnose disorders and to provide treatment that is both preventive and curative. To provide effective and efficient treatment, therapy needs to begin with an accurate assessment and diagnosis. Key relational factors play into the effectiveness of treatment. At STA, we have the proprietary Induction Process which enhances the process of therapy. Sign up for our eNewsletter to learn more about relational factors and STA’s induction process. To do a self assessment visit our web page at www.specializedtherapy.com/self_assessment_checklists.php To schedule an appointment for an assessment contact our intake department at 201-488-6678 or if out of state, 855-STATALK or register for an appointment at www.specializedtherapy.com/specialized_therapy_appointment.php

Dr. Vanessa Gourdine, Director

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New Year’s Resolution: How to Make Them Stick

Every year most of us begin the New Year with a resolution. The most common are to change the bad habits that we have accumulated over many many years of practice: lack of exercise, poor eating habits, smoking etc…We are motivated and have good intentions but unfortunately most of us fail to make any real change.

People fail at resolutions for several reasons. The main reason is that a New Year’s Resolution is a global change in behavior that is too difficult to master all at once. Another, and more important reason is that the brain is hard wired to do what is familiar. There is little conscious effort involved in doing what we have grown accustomed to doing for most of our lives. Finally, the resolutions are hard to stick to because there is no plan.

Here are some tips to help you make the changes you want for 2012 and really feel good about yourself.

First, accept that your brain is pre-programmed to fall back into habits. Once you accept this is how your brain works you can compensate by teaching it to perform differently. You don’t need a herculean effort to change when you commit to the following steps:

1. Breakdown your habits into steps. For Example if you eat poorly identify the worst food habits that you have. Make a list.

2. Commit to choosing one item on your list that you will focus on for one month. Don’t tackle all the behaviors at once. Practice the one new behavior for one month until it becomes a habit. Your brain loves habit. Feel good that you taught it a healthy one.

3. Start with the easiest one to change first. With a feeling of success you can then move onto the next one.

4. Once you have broken down your habits into specific steps, you will be able to devise a plan for the next several months or the year if it requires that many steps to reach your goal.

5. Work on your habits in a group. The brain is highly influenced by others. If others are supportive and practicing good habits, you will too.

6. If you have a hard time identifying your specific steps, ask for help from someone who has succeeded at the same goal you are setting for yourself. They can coach you towards the ultimate goal: a healthier you in a Happier New Year.

Individual therapy and coaching services are available at Specialized Therapy Associates and at Life Work Strategies. There are coaches who specialize in using techniques for efficient and effective change.

To learn more about STA, visit www.specializedtherapy.com and www.thelifeworkstrategies.com and to learn more about specialty programs and group therapy services, please click the link:

http://www.thelifeworkstrategies.com/registration.php

http://www.specializedtherapy.com/specialized_therapy_services/workshops_special_programs.php

Dr. Vanessa Gourdine

Director

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See Yourself in a Group?

Group therapy is one of the most widely used forms of therapy to initiate and sustain change. Although individual therapy is more popular and the most frequently requested type of therapy, group therapy has substantial benefits that are often overlooked.

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Group Therapy Offers Peer Support

Group therapy is practiced within various orientations as is individual therapy. What makes group therapy unique in its format is that it does have specific benefits over individual therapy. The more important reason to use group therapy is that we are social beings and we are raised in a social setting: the family unit. We grow and develop in a social context and without it would be much less than what we are. Our brains are hardwired for social functioning and without social stimulation we would be less functional in every sense of the word.

Group therapy has many benefits to offer:

1. Interpersonal learning: you will grow and develop your interpersonal skills and your identity and self concept will expand as a result of your interpersonal experiences in group therapy. In a supportive environment, led by a professional, you have an opportunity to expand your social skills and develop strong, meaningful relationships with others.

2. It provides an experience of universality. There is a common shared, human experience among us and we cannot experience it unless we are participating in a group. When you experience universality you realize that your problems and issues are not unique to you. Group is the only way to experience universality: a deep emotional and psychological connection to others that is realized and grows deeper by being in a group.

3. You will experience higher levels of self and other acceptance. Through group experiences we learn to grow from acceptance and the nurturing feeling of being accepted by others. The experience of acceptance is nurturing and healing in itself.

4. Group experience gives us the opportunity to be altruistic and to experience altruism. The act of supporting and giving to others boosts self esteem and self confidence.

5. Group provides an opportunity for a corrective family experience. The lack of warmth, acceptance and nurturance that might have been experienced in your developmental years are now available to you in group.

6. You will learn from others and they will provide alternatives to maladaptive patterns.

7. A combination of group and individual therapy is a very potent process. To maximize the efficiency and efficacy of the change process combine the two modalities of individual and group. The combination of dealing with interpersonal issues as well as your individual issues together can effect a powerful change process.

8. If you do group as your only therapy process, it is less expensive than individual therapy.

General group therapy services are available at all times. Groups are open ended. You may join a group or request to join a new group. Once a group is formed you will start with others at the same time.

To learn more about STA, visit www.specializedtherapy.com and to learn more about specialty programs and group therapy services, please click the link:

http://www.specializedtherapy.com/specialized_therapy_services/workshops_special_programs.php

At Specialized Therapy Associates, LLC, we have a team of therapists and doctors who can provide various forms of group therapy. Groups can be conducted in various treatment orientations and this often highly influenced by the type of problems or issues addressed in the group. The treatment orientations that are frequently used include psychodynamic, interpersonal, supportive, cognitive behavioral, psychoeducation or dialectical behavior therapy. Contact the intake department at 201-488-6678 and ask for an intake coordinator who can match you to the right group for your specific needs.

Dr. Gourdine

Director

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Hackensack – Therapist | Psychologists | Psychiatrists

Specialized Therapy Associates – Hackensack Location

Hackensack Office
83 Summit Ave
Hackensack, NJ 07601
201-488-6678
201-488-6224 – fax

Our Hackensack, located in Bergen County, New Jersey is conveniently located off of Route 4. Only 8 miles from the George Washington Bridge makes our office a convenient location for those coming from New York City.

Our professional team includes therapists, psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers and other healthcare specialists.


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The surrounding Bergen Country towns near Hackensack include, River Edge, Paramus, Teaneck, Bogota, South Hackensack, Ridgefield Park, Maywood, Little Ferry, Teterboro, Lodi, Maywood, Saddlebrook, New Milford, Garfield, Hasbrouck Heights, Elmwood Park and Englewood.

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Beating Bedtime Battles

Many a parent struggles through bedtime with their child wondering “How many hours of sleep does she need?”, How do I get him to just go to sleep?”, “What do other parents do?” Other parents often wonder and yell, tuck their child in, read just one more story or fall asleep in the bed with the child.

Pediatricians note that children need 10-11 hours sleep a night until they are about 10 years old. Adolescents need about 8-9 hours, but if they are going through a growth spurt of stresses with a heavy school schedule, they may need 1-2 more hours. The best way to help your child go to sleep is to start when they are young and teach him or her self-calming skills. Bedtime should be proceeded by a calm, relaxing time which can include a warm bath, a short period of watching their favorite TV show or cartoon, a ritual of story, backrub and tuck in by mom or dad.

If your child is currently struggling with sleep. Do not let him get up and end up in your bed. Also, do not make a practice of falling asleep in her bed. In either case, your child will not learn their own good sleep practices. You can do several of the following:

  • Allow a young child several small soft toys to play with in bed until they are tired and fall asleep.
  • Keep bedtime the SAME TIME every school night and within 30-45 minutes later on weekends. Your body acclimates to sleep schedules.
  • Take your child back to bed EVERY time she gets up in the middle of the night.
  • You can rub her back for a few minutes, but then go back to your own bed.
  • Take cell phones away from teens. Many kids will spend all night on the phone or be woken briefly by the ping or vibration of incoming messages. This is a good
    practice for parents too!

For more help with your child sleeping, see http://www.specializedtherapy.com/specialized_therapy_services/parenting_skills.php

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Emotional Eating

Obesity has reached epidemic proportions with 3.8 million people weighing over 300 lbs. and approximately 65% of Americans are overweight. Childhood obesity has more than tripled in two decades. The average adult female weighs 163lbs. The Center for Disease Control reports that in 2006 only four states had a prevalence of obesity less than 20%. One in four children is overweight.

Clearly the statistics indicate a dramatic increase in obesity in the United States, but the trend is true for all developed countries. The causes of obesity are many—some complex and others simple, such as, living sedentary lifestyles.

Jessica struggled with her weight for more than two decades. At times, she had felt in control but for the most part she experienced her eating and weight problem as controlling her. She describes her struggle: “I gained weight as an adolescent. I was very unhappy as a teen. I felt unattractive and unloved and unwanted. The food was a way of making me feel better. I didn’t worry about the eating because I figured I could lose the weight when I wanted and I was very successful at it. As a teen ager I could lose 10lbs in a week but the ease of losing weight gave me permission to eat whatever I wanted. The day came that I couldn’t lose it so quickly. My weight went up and down for a long time and then the general trend was that my weight increased over time. I had phases when I lost weight, but it was a struggle not to put the weight back on. I would re-gain the weight I lost plus add a few pounds. As I experienced the increased weight after a successful round of dieting I became even more restrictive and crazy about my weight loss schemes. I would spend a day or two not eating at all and then decide I would eat only cabbage soup for a few days. This is an example of the wild schemes I would concoct to control my weight. Now I am totally out of control. I am about 86 pounds overweight and I feel completely helpless to do anything about it. The more I try to control the more I want to eat. The more problems I face and the more stressed I feel, the more I eat. Actually most things end up with: ‘the more I eat’ .”

At LWS, we seek to create true health and wellness. It begins with lifestyle changes and learning how to nourish yourself, not just with the right foods but with the way you live your life. Wellness is about
managing stress, having a positive outlook, sleeping well and eating foods to nourish your body. Most of the people in the wellness program are there because they are not feeling their best. They may have weight issues or may not be sleeping well. They have been to doctors who have evaluated their complaints of tiredness, stomach distress or general malaise only to find out that there is nothing wrong
with them.

At LWS you can have a complete lab work up. You can have a wellness lab evaluation to establish your general neurological health. We will evaluate your lifestyle and take a close look at what you eat and establish what is the best nutrition for you. It is best to have your foodplan designed around your body type, family health history and other genetic factors. Laboratory tests will tell us if you have a predispositions toward diseases now, such as, a pre-diabetic condition.

Based on your personal evaluation, a plan of health will be designed. It will address nutrition, exercise and overall lifestyle changes. You will know how to manage your stress to keep them at low levels. You will become highly educated about your body, how to maintain good health and what signs to look for when you may be putting your health into jeopardy.

The best time to start with a wellness program is before you become ill. Always protect your health and learn what “medical/medicine” treatments may affect your health adversely.

Jessica describes her journey back to healthy eating and a normal weight. “I learned to identify what I was thinking and feeling. Every time I had a craving I kept a journal in my purse or in my pocket and wrote down what I was doing and what was going through my mind. I reviewed my notes with my coach, who gave me helpful ideas on what to change in my behavior. She coached me through my negative thinking—I had no idea how often I was indulging in negative thinking. I learned that if I felt the least bit out of control or feared I might not be in control, I wanted to eat. I put all of my focus on my relationship with my mother but she wasn’t influencing me anymore. I was living my own life but I was still acting as if I had to have my secret stash of food to make me feel better. I learned to eat out in the open. Once I did that I was really aware of how much I was eating and I wasn’t going to eat a bag of cookies in front of other people. It was interesting in that as I gave up my food habit I realized there were important aspects about myself that had to change. I learned to take control of me and accepted the fact that nothing else is really in our control. I learned to take life a step at a time and to welcome the surprises and challenges. The other odd thing is that as I gave up relying on food as a remedy for all of my emotional ailments, I felt challenged by a lot. Food was like a sedative to me. Once the sedative wore off, I felt really alive and now I realize I can live with the challenges.”

Jessica achieved a great deal from the LWS wellness program which for her was focused on her weight and eating patterns. She finally learned to let go of old, self destructive issues with food. She progressed from that point to deal with wellness and lifestyle patterns that were not helping her to thrive physically. As a result of ongoing coaching and development, she was able to reach her ideal weight and then move onto living a more healthful life.

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